Constant Schedule Changes

By mandy hui ‘23

During the past two years at St. Mark’s, there have been drastic changes to the academic schedule, confusing many students as they attempt to navigate through the school year under unprecedented circumstances. Due to the sudden transition from in-person learning to remote learning due to Covid-19, St. Mark’s tried their best to adjust the regular academic day schedule to a more comfortable schedule that would fit well with the majority of the students. Altering the schedule was challenging as many students were situated in various countries, since the school has a large international student population, making it difficult to allocate a good time for classes to begin and end for everybody. To this day, there are still ongoing changes to the schedule, especially during lunch, as fitting the entire school into the dining hall simultaneously would not be Covid-friendly.

After the first spring break of the 2019-2020 academic year, St. Mark’s announced that they would host all classes remotely, completely remodeling the school life and routine of all St. Markers. Instead of having classes end at around 3 pm, the school shortened the school day so it would end at around noon. This allowed international students to rest, especially if they were in a location that was more than 10 hours ahead of Eastern Standard Time. In addition to that, the school cancelled Saturday classes entirely. When the 2020-2021 school year began, St. Mark's then announced that they would return to in-person learning. However, remote learning was still an option, so they created a hybrid learning schedule. The school lengthened the academic day from the previous year, ending it at around 1:30 pm, but if you were an international student with a class past 11 pm, you would be exempt, and the class would be optional. Classes were also condensed from the customary 80 minute and 45-minute blocks to only 40-minute blocks, along with 30-minute intervals between each class (which was then 20-minute blocks after the first semester) as it gives the school time to sanitise classrooms and working spaces. Saturday classes still remained cancelled that year. The school also implemented three different lunch blocks (A, B, and C), with each student allotted a particular lunch block every weekday to prevent overcrowding in the dining hall, following Covid regulations. 

This academic year, 2021-2022, the school’s academic schedule came back to some normalcy with the return of the infamous 80-minute blocks and Saturday classes. Although school seems like it is back to a somewhat ‘normal’ state, there are still slight changes to the schedule. During the first two weeks of school, St. Mark’s introduced ‘‘extended orientation’’, helping students transition back to school more smoothly with the absence of certain color blocks throughout the week, particularly because of the sudden shift back to a schedule student’s were not accustomed to. Moreover, lunch is still staggered but only into two blocks (A and B) so there would not be too many students eating at once. The constant changes to the schedule have been an exasperating experience for many students. However, St. Markers continue to thrive and work their hardest with the conditions given to them, doing the best they can with what they have.




Community and Equity at St. Mark’s: A brief History and Overview

BY Ingrid Yeung ‘23

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Since it created its Diversity Statement, St. Mark’s School has been striving to emphasize the importance of diversity and respect for all regardless of “sex, gender, gender identity, race, religion, sexual orientation, ability, family structure or economic background.” In this chaotic year of the pandemic and all the identity movements happening worldwide, our school’s Community and Equity (C&E) initiatives have continued to work for diversity, equity and inclusion. Faculty and students worked hard throughout this year, whether remotely or on campus, to continue creating a safe, welcoming space for all St. Mark’s students. The Pathways prefects and affinity group leaders have stepped up to take up an essential part of responsibilities for combating racism and supporting the students. 

To fully appreciate the present state of Community and Equity at St. Mark’s, it is essential to understand the development of the Community and Equity Committee, Pathways, and affinity groups throughout the years. Around ten years ago (2010-2011), when ideas of diversity and equity were not as well voiced in the community as they are now, the Pathways program first emerged. Pathways was first created to create a more welcoming and inclusive environment for BIPOC students. It changed orientation to include time for students and families who were new to boarding school to acclimate better. In 2011-2012, Mr. Warren officially established a position for director of C&E. The affinity groups were initiated while the first C&E director, Ms. Archibald, was in place. After that, students became much more involved in Pathways and affinity groups and over the years the Pathways’ program has developed to be much more student-oriented and student-centered for everyone. 

Under the directorship of Ms.Adams and Ms. Zhu, Community and Equity and the Pathways affinity groups continued to evolve and played a much more significant role in the St. Mark’s community. The creation of Umoja, the Unity day, and the further strengthening of affinity groups have  all contributed to St. Mark’s becoming a more diverse and inclusive community. The progression of C&E in St. Mark’s is impressive. Its focus over time has evolved as it has developed from a program for orientation to a program that empowers students of all backgrounds and bonds the community together. The continuous progress of C&E and Pathways allows us to further understand the progress and advancements this year in Pathways and the creation of the Anti-racism Task Force. 

Pathways has always served an essential role in guiding St. Markers and creating safe spaces for all students in this community. It is a student-led and student-oriented diversity program that allows students of franchised identity to come together and celebrate their shared identities and serve those who need it the most. Now, there are multiple affinity groups, the groups and leaders are equipped with the ability to voice their own identities and call for change within and beyond our community.

The Pathways prefects have also proposed the antiracism petition. Pathways and affinity groups have always been active in voicing the identity of minority groups and standing in the front in the combat against racism, but, at the same time, Pathways was never intended to put any “obligation” on all students to restructure any systems or educate the whole community. The primary purpose of the program is to create a safe space and enable students to develop the ability to react to incidents through practicing conversations. There are no magical curricula or structural changes in the system that would automatically eliminate bias-based acts or incidents in the community. Going to affinity group meetings and practicing conversations regarding sensitive topics on identities can empower students. Specifically, it has been challenging for all the pathways groups to have regular meetings in this current year and provide a comfortable space for students who shared one identity. The topics discussed in the affinity groups meeting have also shifted due to the current world events. However, all affinity group leaders have been as creative as they can to provide the students with an experience similar to those at school. On an administrative level, the Pathways prefects have been sitting on the Anti-racism task force and holding check-in meetings with Dr. Daves and Mr. Warren regarding the petition and the C&E programs continue to improve and evolve even in this harsh and hybrid learning environment. 

The Anti-Racism task force is a new addition to our school Community and Equity efforts this year, dedicated explicitly to making St. Mark’s an antiracist school. There are four quadrants to this task force, and each serves a different purpose, whether academic, communication, or student experience-oriented, but all working together towards the same goal. Constituency and Engagement, Student Experience, Teaching and Learning, and Professional Development are the four groups that make up the whole task force. The constituency and engagement quadrant helps both communication and dialogue from BIPOC and white alumni to the board and some internal engagement and communication. Ms. Christina Paul, Dr. John Daves, and Ms. Starry Zhu are all in this quadrant responsible for the incident reports. The St. Mark’s Bias-Based Incidents Report form created this year allows the student to report any bias-based incident or offense that they might have experienced. This incident report system allows students to feel more protected in the school community. The student experience quadrant is about enabling the student to learn how to learn outside the classroom and consider the unscripted learning experiences. Moreover, the teacher and learning quadrant is more responsible for the teacher to know how to teach social identity, social justice, and inclusion in the classroom. Then, the professional development focuses on making sure people within the community can talk about their social identities through windows and mirrors and second sight. Each quadrant works with senior administrators to better ensure the steps to take to move towards our goals and begin to take live actions. With all those four quadrants acting together, the whole school community is able to become more self-aware from a social justice standpoint in understanding what it means to be an antiracist school. 

St. Mark’s has seen significant development in Community and Equity and antiracism in the past year and will continuously work to become a truly antiracist school. With several components working together, whether the student-led and oriented Pathways program or the Anti-racism task force that involves both the students, faculties, and Board of Trustees, St. Mark’s has started its first series of actions in constructing a genuinely inclusive community. Guided by the ideas of learning how to learn, windows and mirrors, second sights, the C&E program will enable students to speak their own social identities and voice for social justice. And while St. Mark is on its way to becoming a truly antiracist school, Pathways is always dedicated to creating a safe space and an environment for students to be comfortable and bond with students with their shared identities. No matter how the programs advance, C&E is always a program serving students at-need and supporting students of all backgrounds. 

Special thanks to Dr. Heather Harwood, Ms. Starry Zhu, and Dr. John Daves 

Online Classics Banquet

By Suha Choi ‘22

If you have been on Main Campus in late May, during pre-Covid times, it’s possible that you have at some time encountered a group of freshmen dressed in white togas rushing towards the Parkman room of the library, as they quietly recite unrecognizable Latin words over and over. This odd encounter points to a single possible event — it is time for the annual Classics Banquet and the famous Latin I play! Despite the challenges of hybrid learning and social distancing this year, the Classics Department was able to hold the annual Classics Banquet via Zoom this year. Here are some highlights. 

This time, instead of wearing white togas and long beards, the main characters of Latin I play are spotted with masks on. Instead of a live performance at the Parkman room, the pre-recorded play allowed for more clear recitations of the line and the background of the main campus, perfect for remote students who have long missed the sight of our beautiful campus! The rest of the performance can be found in this Zoom recording.

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The Classical Diploma students from VI form a presentation of their capstone project— exploring Greek mythology through a modern lens. One unique aspect of taking Classics at St. Mark’s is that students are challenged to go beyond translating a foreign language— young classicists at St. Mark’s constantly seek to find meaning and relevance in ancient texts. By applying historical context and linguistic knowledge altogether, the VI formers were able to each create their unique interpretations, summaries, and visual components of a chosen Greek myth. The details of the projects can be found on this website.


(Featuring VI Former Cara Mulcahey and her Greek mythology project)

The Classics Department also celebrated the winners of the annual book prize winners for the best sight translation of a given passage:

Latin I- Coco Chen
Latin II- Ryan Taylor
Latin III- Anika Sukthankar
Advanced Topics- Tate Frederick
Latin Workshop- Arden Williams
Greek I- Michael Ferlisi
Greek II- Cara Mulcahey
Greek III- PD Ragone

In addition to the book prize winners, the awardees of the National Latin Exam are also listed below. 

James Sabet - Cum Laude Certificate (Latin I)
Hannah Macleod - Cum Laude Certificate (Latin I)
Maisie Pierce - Cum Laude Certificate (Latin III reading)
Arjun Yerabothu - Silver Medal Maxima Cum Laude (Latin I)
Alden Metha - Silver Medal Maxima Cum Laude (Latin III reading)
Frankie Ruperto - Gold Medal Maxima Cum Laude (Advanced Poetry) 

Congratulations to all the winners and the Classics Department for organizing a successful Classics Banquet despite the switch to an online format. The next school year awaits another Classics Banquet in which everyone will be back on campus and able to gather in the Parkman room. Until then, valete!

St. Mark’s Efforts to Spread Antiracism

Amber Lee ‘24

St. Mark’s makes continuous efforts to help spread antiracism. Students are encouraged to discuss issues and their thoughts during advisory times, some classes, and especially the annual C&E day. All of our community members are trying their best to educate each other, and there are multiple opportunities for students themselves to explore the subject. I interviewed Mr. Corazzini, the director of wellness, about his thoughts on St. Mark’s efforts and the events.

Mr. Corazzini:

“We have started to do a better job of becoming an antiracist school here at St. Mark’s. There have been opportunities to have a conversation in athletics, faculty meetings, and on C and E day. I do believe that there should be more opportunities across disciplines to engage in thorough discussions about social justice in the community. So we should not be doing one-off conversations rather the work should be continued across the curriculum in all of your courses, humanities or STEM.

I was blown away by the work done by the Pathway Prefects in helping to facilitate all of the breakout sessions. In the past, I do not remember the students playing such a vital role in the day. It was interesting as an adult to listen to different perspectives and to continue to develop a full version of who I am by being attentive to what our student community was actually saying this past Wednesday. There is a lot of room for growth both as an individual and as a school community but if we pay attention to what our constituents are saying and what they are in need of we will move forward in becoming a truly anti-racist school.

It is essential for everyone to eagerly participate in stopping antiracism, and one of those ways is to be active in the opportunities St. Mark’s provides for everyone. All of us must always seek to improve, both as individuals and as the whole community.”

St. Mark’s Black History Month: A Celebration of Black Excellence And Advocacy of Antiracism

By Coco Chen ‘24

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In February, students and faculty and staff at St. Mark’s launched numerous activities and programs to commemorate Black History Month. Apprising the school of African American history, culture, identity, and contributions to history, Instagram posts and e-mails and school announcements provided ample opportunities for anyone who wishes to gain a better understanding. 

Black History Month is an annual observance originating in the U.S., dedicated to promoting achievements by African Americans and other people of African descent. It is the brainchild of the pioneering African American activist Carter G. Woodson, who instituted the former Association for the Study of Negro Life and History (Scott). In 1926, ASNLH decided to sponsor a Negro History Week in the second week of February. By the late 1960s, the Negro History Week evolved into Black History Month, which was then promulgated by president Gerald Ford in 1976 (Scott; “HISTORY OF | History of Black History Month” 01:25-01:35). 

In 2020, many disturbing racist events have occured in the United States casting an ominous veil on the nation’s attempts to create racial justice. George Floyd, suffocated by a white police officer kneeling on his neck for a period reported to be 8 minutes and 46 seconds, initiated a worldwide Black Lives Matter movement that protested against police violence and racial discrimination. Racism was on display both in the hostile response to these protests and as white supremacists organized a violent pushback to Trump’s presidential loss by storming the U.S. capitol. In addition, the U.S. mourned the loss of many brilliant African American giants: the iconic civil rights leader and congressman John Lewis, international basketball star Kobe Bryant, female NASA research mathematician Katherine Johnson, to name a few.

In the face of these crises, Black History Month of 2021 serves as a chance for all Americans to reflect, self-educate, and recommit (“The Significance of Black History Month in 2021” 03:15-05:21). At St. Mark’s, even though we have had a Community and Equity program for almost a decade, the mission of becoming an antiracist school is a relatively recent aspiration and the school has an unpleasant history of racial discrimination. Since the launch of the Instagram account @blackatsm, African American students, alumni, faculty, and staff members have been encouraged to share their individual experiences anonymously to reveal how African American students have been frequently disregarded and excluded from the predominately white culture at St. Mark’s. St. Markers of various ages confided that certain faculty members and students were ignorant and disrespectful, ridiculing African American traits and using racial slurs. One student from the class of 2016 posts that “being a black student at SM means being instantly traumatized by the institution, teachers, and students and being told to suck it up because you’re lucky to even be at SM.” These disturbing and humiliating experiences lent this year’s Black History Month a more urgent purpose - to eliminate racism and grant full dignity and respect to black student in the community

At St. Mark’s, each week of last month was enriched with Instagram posts of @smlions on Monday Motivation, Wednesday Wisdom, Throwback Thursday, and Feature Friday. Monday Motivation celebrated outstanding African Americans in literature, art, athletics, and education with detailed introductions such as the prodigious author Toni Morrison, founder of American soul Sam Cooke, four-time NBA MVP LeBron James, and renowned educator Booker T. Washington. Wednesday Wisdom imparted lessons on affinity groups, the Black Lives Matter movement, and antiracist policies and terms. Throwback Thursday provided a flashback to the first African American members at St. Mark’s, and Feature Friday featured members of our community on social media this month. 

Other affinity groups offered further information. Gender and Sexuality Alliance (GSA) recommended movies and articles that explicate the intersections of the Black LGBTQ+ Community, introducing students to contributory yet often ignored or erased African American LGBTQ activists who speak truth to power. The rebellion against the police at the Stonewall Inn, considered by many as the beginning of the LGBTQ movement, was predominantly led by queer and trans people of color. A gay man of African heritage considers these activists empowering as they look like him, love like him, and fight for the same cause as him (“Black History Is LGBTQ History”). Furthermore, Ms. Lee and Ms. McCann respectively send documentaries and poems to watch and read throughout the month. 

Though Black History Month only occurs in February, it does not mean the African American community is merely recognized in this shortest month of the year. Black history is a part of American history, and it needs to be remembered and celebrated every day instead of exclusively in a month. Nevertheless, due to a long history of racial discrimination, having every American truly respect the African American community is a long and gradual process. It requires the U.S. to start from a month and extend to a full year. During this month, the U.S. needs to look at the African American history both before and after slavery, paying remembrance and homage to not only the accomplished African American figures at the present but also to those deprived of freedom and the opportunity to excellence of the past. 

Works Cited 

“Black History Is LGBTQ History.” GLAD, 5 Feb. 2018, www.glad.org/post/black-history-lgbtq-history.

“HISTORY OF | History of Black History Month.” YouTube, uploaded by HISTORY Canada, 12 Feb. 2020, www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnSHm3Y9qYc.

Scott, Daryl. “Origins of Black History Month – ASALH – The Founders of Black History Month.” ASALH, asalh.org/about-us/origins-of-black-history-month. Accessed 26 Feb. 2021.

“The Significance of Black History Month in 2021.” YouTube, uploaded by CBS News, 2 Feb. 2021, www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMrYp_LjBcM. 

What Can Students Do To Encourage Antiracism?

By Jonathan Hernandez ‘24

“Antiracism” is a term which in recent years has gained popularity and has helped illustrate and outline how individuals can actively work towards combating racism rather than simply being opposed to it. The recent Black Lives Matter protests of 2020 have again brought the public’s attention the racial inequalities present in our society. These inequalities are not new, but we sometimes tend to become comfortable with everyday inequalities, sometimes making excuses for not combating everyday racism in our world. The conversation has moved beyond whether there is racism--we know there is--and now the Black Lives Matter movement is pushing us to ask ourselves not whether we are racist or not racist, but if we are actively being antiracist. The distinction between “antiracist” and “non-racist” is an important one.

Differentiating “Antiracist”  and “Non-Racist”

The Racial Healing Handbook by Anneliese A. Singh, Ph.D., LPC, describes what it means to be an antiracist. Singh states that the term antiracist refers to someone who is “actively seeking not only to raise their consciousness about race and racism, but also to take action when they see racial power inequities in everyday life.” Being an antiracist requires being aware and opposing racist actions and the inequalities they create including becoming proactive and correcting these injustices in their communities.

Being nonracist means that someone can recognize racism and have beliefs against racism. However, being non-racist implies that an individual does not correct such racist actions that the individual opposes (Singh).  A non-racist is passive while an antiracist is active. This difference between a non-racist and antiracist is important because it means that it is enough to simply acknowledge that racism exists, but there is a call to action. We are called to be proactive in combating racism by being antiracists or what Singh refers to as upstanders rather than being reactive nonracists or bystanders. This means that being an antiracist is more than just simply shaking our heads when we encounter racism in our lives or “liking” a social media post because it calls out racism. Being an antiracist requires work. 

In response to this realization on whether someone is an upstander or a bystander, one may wonder what it looks like to be an antiracist. Simply put, being an antiracist means that an individual actively combats racism in their daily lives (“Being Antiracist”). The different kinds of racism that antiracists can actively oppose are individual, interpersonal, institutional, and structural racism. 

Individual Racism

Individual racism refers to the actions, beliefs, and attitudes of those who support or sustain racism in ways that are known and unbeknownst to individuals. Some examples of this are given by the National Museum of African American History and Culture and include believing that  White people are superior, telling or laughing at a racist joke, or not hiring a person of color because “something doesn’t feel right” about the individual (“Being Antiracist”). 

Interpersonal Racism

Interpersonal racism is racism that occurs in instances involving at least two individuals. This particular instance of discrimination can be in the form of slurs, biases, hateful speech or action, or any other public expressions of racism (“Being Antiracist”). This might include calling someone the N-word or implying that they belong to a certain socioeconomic group because of their ethnicity.

Institutional Racism

These incidents of racism occur within organizations. This type of discrimination is demonstrated in the form of unfair policies (“Being Antiracist”). Institutional policies which favor white individuals never mention a particular group of people based on race but are intended to create advantages (“Being Antiracist”). An example of this type of racism is a school system where students of color are more frequently distributed into overcrowded classrooms and schools are underfunded and preventing them from accessing higher-resourced schools.

Structural Racism

Structural racism is the system of bias based on race that reaches across institutions and society. These systems privilege white people and result in disadvantages for people of color (“Being Antiracist”). An example of structural racism would be stereotypes of people of color as criminals or hired help in mainstream movies and media. 

New Generation, New Change

In recent years, youth have become increasingly involved in addressing social problems. For example, Malala, Greta Thunberg, and David Hogg became activists and are creating change in society in the U.S. and on a global scale.  The rise in youth activism means that young people can make a difference -- we matter. 

Jessica Taft, an associate professor of Latin American and Latino Studies at UC Santa Cruz, and the author of Rebel Girls and The Kids Are in Charge: Activism and Power in Peru's Movement of Working Children, noted in an interview that, "Around the world, we are seeing children and youth engage as social, political, and economic actors, demonstrating their capacity to help make social change… Adults make a lot of assumptions about children and what they're capable of, and those assumptions are often quite false.” (McNulty). This gives me hope that St. Mark’s students can make a difference today. We have been asked to “lead lives of consequence.”  To me, this means that we as a school are tasked with making a difference. We can challenge racism daily and live an antiracist life so that we can lead lives of consequence.

Today, students have access to resources such as the internet and social media to expand their movements and collect more members for their causes that youth have never had before. With these resources, students can share petition links, advise safe protesting, create templates for messaging political leaders, list bail funds, share videos, and share information to inspire others to join the causes (Rim). We have examples of young people leading lives of consequence. Kinsale Hueston, 20 years old, is such a person. Hueston has been able to highlight marginalized voices mostly through art (Kamenetz et al.). With the covid-19 pandemic and the growing use of social media, Heuston utilized social media to raise awareness of the Navajo Nation’s issues (Kamenetz et al.). Previous to the Covid-19 pandemic, Heuston became involved at the local level by participating in the protest movements addressing the missing and murdered indigenous women and at the Dakota Access Pipeline (Kamenetz et al.). However, with the pandemic and fewer opportunities to meet in person and at school, Heuston utilized social media and has been able to raise awareness of these issues online (Kamenetz et al.). Heuston accurately demonstrates how students, who sometimes feel powerless, can utilize social media, the internet, and their voices to raise awareness about issues and bring about change on both local and federal levels.

What can we (as students) do now?

We have a call to action as St. Markers to be proactive or to be an upstander rather than a bystander.  On an individual level, students can reflect on their own experiences and how they can be antiracists. Students can become more informed about the world and the privileges that they might have been afforded because of their background. However, that’s only a first step. We have to not only acknowledge that we live in a society that privileges some over others, but we must actively work to not perpetuate such inequalities. What does this mean? Perhaps it means that we examine what businesses we support financially or don’t support because we don’t believe that they have antiracist practices or policies. Perhaps this means that we expand our reading lists to include different perspectives that we would not have considered. Perhaps this means that we lobby our local library to include more children’s books that reflect our diverse society. Currently, there are more children’s books about animals than there are about children of color (Stechyson). 

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Being young doesn’t hinder one’s ability to make changes, especially in an age where social media and the internet are easily accessible. In fact, we have a greater voice than sometimes we want to acknowledge. Leading a life of consequence is beyond a motto at St. Mark’s. We have a voice and a skillset to make change happen. We can begin by informing our families and communities about how to become antiracist. We can write to our local congressperson, senator, or governor to support or negate bills or legislation that can affect communities. Further, students can publicly protest.

Some youth believe that it may be challenging to fight racism and discrimination, but this is not the case. Students can have a tremendous impact. Students can take action now. This is our time to not be complacent but to be antiracists in what we do every day. 

If only we're brave enough to see it 

If only we're brave enough to be it.

-Amanda Gorman


References

Kamenetz, Anya, et al. “‘I’m Willing to Fight for America’: 5 Student Activists on Protesting for Change.” NPR.org, 19 June 2020, www.npr.org/2020/06/19/880224955/i-m-willing-to-fight-for-america-5-student-activists-on-protesting-for-change. 

McNulty, Jennifer. “Youth Activism Is on the Rise around the Globe, and Adults Should Pay Attention, Says Author.” UC Santa Cruz News, 2019, news.ucsc.edu/2019/09/taft-youth.html.

Singh, Anneliese A. The Racial Healing Handbook: Practical Activities to Help You Challenge Privilege, Confront Systemic Racism & Engage in Collective Healing. Oakland, Ca, New Harbinger Publications, Inc, 2019.

Rim, Christopher. “How Student Activism Shaped the Black Lives Matter Movement.” Forbes, 4 June 2020, www.forbes.com/sites/christopherrim/2020/06/04/how-student-activism-shaped-the-black-lives-matter-movement/?sh=719b35754414.

“Being Antiracist.” National Museum of African American History and Culture, Oct. 2019, nmaahc.si.edu/learn/talking-about-race/topics/being-antiracist. 

Stechyson, Natalie. “Kids Books Still Have a Lack-Of-Diversity Problem, Powerful Image Shows.” HuffPost Canada, HuffPost Canada, 21 June 2019, www.huffingtonpost.ca/entry/diversity-kids-books-statistics_ca_5d0bb0f8e4b0859fc3db38c3.

How Not to Quit Your Resolutions by February

By Sophie Chiang ‘23 and Julie He ‘23

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2020 was not the best year for most of us, and thankfully 2021 has arrived. As we head into a new year, we find that there’s 365 days worth of time for self-improvement and accomplishing goals. Making New Year’s Resolutions is a familiar and fun tradition for many people. They can be goals or practices that a person would like to achieve by the end of the year. It can be a promise to start doing something productive, like recycling, or to quit something harmful, like smoking or drinking. It can also be as simple as checking your emails every day or something more difficult like running ten miles every day. Many people set these as goals to better themselves or achieve something that they have wanted to do for a long time. However, many people break them or do not follow up before the year ends. They deem it too hard, or they may simply get lazy and give up. Some don’t even try at all. This is mainly because they set the wrong goals or don’t know how to frame them for maximum achievement potential. Backed by research, this is how you can achieve your resolutions and become a truly better version of yourself after just one year. 

The best way to set a goal is by following the acronym SMART. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Timely. 

  1. Be specific. Don’t be too general, as you will never truly know when you have reached the goal. Be sure to answer the 5 whys: what do I want to accomplish? Why is this goal important? Who is involved? Where is it located? Which resources are involved?

  2. It should be measurable. When setting a goal, make sure to quantify/specify exactly what you want to achieve. For example, if you want to “get good grades this year”, what exactly does that mean? You should specify, “I want to get straight As this year” or “I want to get on the honor roll”. This way, you will have a definite indicator when you have reached your goal, and it serves as a concrete motivation.

  3. It needs to be achievable and realistic. If your goal is too ambitious, it will only leave you feeling worse when the year rolls to an end and you haven’t accomplished it. Make sure to answer the question, how can I accomplish this goal?

  4. Your goal should be relevant. Is it worthwhile? Is it the right time to set your mind to it? Is it applicable to your current situation? 

  5. It needs to be timely. You should set a rough deadline to increase incentive. This also helps you create a priority list of which goal you should focus on first.

Lots of people also have trouble coming up with resolutions. Here are some resolutions to get you thinking!

  1. Read one book every month

  2. Drink at least one bottle of water per day

  3. Give out one compliment or say something positive to someone every day

  4. Incorporate at least one salad into every meal

  5. Try cooking a new recipe

  6. Begin the day by reading the news

  7. Make a new friend or talk to someone new

  8. Make a schedule for homework and stick to it

  9. Minimize your screen time by a certain percentage

  10. Spend time with your family and talk/facetime them at least twice a week

  11. Clean your room every week

  12. Find a new hobby

  13. Try meditating or writing

  14. Quit one bad habit you have

  15. Go to bed earlier/wake up earlier

Sharing your resolutions with others may also help. Studies show that sharing your resolutions and progress with somebody can keep you motivated. If someone else knows what you are aiming for, you might be more inclined to not renege. Giving yourself rewards can also be beneficial. For example, treat yourself to a piece of candy if you ran a mile or give yourself a break if you followed your homework schedule. Hopefully, by following SMART, you will achieve at least one of your goals by the end of the year and transform into a happier, healthier, and more successful you.

Holiday Traditions of St. Mark's Students

By Judy Xie ‘23

One of the most wonderful aspects of the St. Mark’s community is our diversity, as we have members from a great range of backgrounds and cultures. The 364 individuals that make up our student body hail from 19 states and 15 countries. Each student brings a unique perspective to campus life, that has been shaped by their family values, life experiences, and cultural identities. During this past holiday season, the variety of traditions that were practiced within students’ families reflect our school’s diversity. 

I have celebrated Christmas with my family for as long as I can remember. Despite my parents’ status as Chinese immigrants and our non-religiousness, we never fail to set up a Christmas tree and spend time exchanging gifts as a family. We treat the holiday as an opportunity to spend quality time with one another and make happy memories. This past year, my older sister Josie, along with her boyfriend, traveled from their home in Manhattan to come and celebrate Christmas with us. On Christmas Eve, we ate a filling and delicious dinner of various Chinese dishes cooked by my mom, such as a roasted duck. The next morning we had a breakfast of homemade Chinese bao (steamed buns) before we gathered by the tree to open our gifts and take pictures as a family. I enjoy Christmas immensely every year and was especially happy to spend time with my sister this year after not seeing her for a while due to the ongoing pandemic. Holidays in my family are always joyous occasions that I will forever cherish the memories of. 

Throughout the three-week-long winter break, I had the opportunity to speak with some of my fellow St. Markers about their family traditions around the holidays. Mandy Hui ‘23 shared that Christmas isn’t extremely culturally significant to her family in Hong Kong, but they still engage in some semblance of celebration. Each year, Mandy goes to a local restaurant with her family and then watches the annual fireworks display that the city puts on. Unfortunately, they were cancelled this year and many restaurants were also closed. Instead, Mandy’s family had a hot pot dinner at home with a wide assortment of foods such as cabbage dumplings, meats, and noodles. 

Dani Ortiz ‘21 and her family have a tradition where they open one gift on Christmas Eve every year, which is always a board game. Her favorite game is called Balderdash, which is also known as “Fictionary”. To play, one player asks a question and everyone else writes down an incorrect, but believable answer. The first player reads aloud all of the answers along with the real one, and the rest of the players guess which answer is correct. Dani and her family play the newly opened boardgame together for the rest of the night and then wake up to make a pancake breakfast as a family on Christmas morning before they open the rest of their presents. 

Abby Griffin ‘22 said that Christmas is one of her favorite holidays since it’s a pretty big deal in her family. She shared that her great aunt usually hosts the family for the holidays and cooks plenty of delicious Armenian dishes, including this pineapple stuffing, which she raved about. Sadly, they were unable to make the trip this year in efforts to stay safe amid the pandemic. Another one of Abby’s favorite Christmas traditions is decorating her tree with her family every year. Many of the ornaments they use hold significant sentimental value to her which makes the activity all the more special. 

Sophie Ledonio ‘23 and her family celebrate Noche Buena, which is a Filipino holiday. For Filipinos, Noche Buena holds immense cultural and religious significance. The holiday is celebrated the night before Christmas with a huge feast, that is traditionally eaten after hearing the midnight mass to welcome Christmas Day. In Sophie’s family, they get a huge ham, which is the traditional meat eaten during Noche Buena, and eat a filipino bread biscuit called “pan de sal”. Once midnight hits, they all gather together to open presents. 

I really enjoyed interviewing my peers and learning about the fun traditions their families have during the holiday season. Each tradition was special and unique, yet they showcase only a small sliver of the rich cultural diversity of St. Mark’s students.

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