Interview With An NAA Co-Head: Conflicts and Notes for Growth

By grace lee ‘23

How many of you readers here have attended a meeting by the NAA, aka the Native American Association on campus? As one of the smallest affinity groups at St. Mark’s with only four members schoolwide, it feels right that the Antiracism Issue of the St. Marker should include their thoughts. 

A Note From The Author:

I’d like to thank Tori Merlo, a fifth former who is a co-head of the NAA (Native American Association) affinity group on campus who was willing to speak with me. The other co-head, Jeamilett Martinez, is currently attending SYA and was not able to respond at this time. 

As much as I, the author, want to include a wide range of Native perspectives in my article, it is understandable and deserved (as you may learn through reading this article) that it is not possible or appropriate for me to reach out to the Nipmuc Nation for the favor of being interviewed for this article. I would hope to one day hear their side of the story in the conflicts we have had, but for now, I will make sure that I will center the article on the information that Tori provided me as well as the main takeaways from them.

I hope you will all read this knowing that this article will only provide a fragment of a complex story that is yet to be fully told. 

Context (from Tori Merlo and the Advanced Global Class):

What led me to want to report on this issue? This is the following incident that I heard about from one of my classes.

Construction has been happening in our school for a few consecutive years, whether it be on the new dorm, West campus, or various main campus upgrades. However, there was a significant issue with one of the construction projects that many students as well as faculty are not aware of. The site of the parking lot across the street from the main campus has more of a history than any of us at St. Mark’s may ever know. 

When the parking lot was part way through completion, the tribe native to the land that our school is built upon— known as the Nipmuc Nation — had an issue with our parking lot, as the land that it was built on was claimed as an old graveyard of the tribe. St. Mark’s excavated after construction had already begun, and though there were no signs of indigenous presence found in the dig, the situation had already escalated. 

St. Mark’s has repeatedly reached out to the members of the Nipmuc Nation to collaborate with our school on our many programs on diversity, which they have refused due to our conflicts. The few interactions that the NAA has had with the Nipmuc Nation have fallen flat, after mentioning that we are from St. Mark’s School. 

Many faculty and students are currently unaware of this incident —understandably so, as this was not talked about publicly outside of individual classes, and because no official apology or statement has been given by our school. 

My Talk with NAA — On Apology:

When I sat down to talk with Tori, the number one fact that she made clear was that St. Mark’s has not issued any sort of statement for the recent incident, nor has there been any sort of apology made about our school being built on Native land, all the way down to Joseph Burnett. Though the school has reached out to them to participate in our diversity program, no way asking a favor as large as that should come before an official apology about disrespecting their land. If we want to build a true partnership with the Nipmuc Nation, we must take all the steps and work towards a relationship, without our driving goal being a good reputation for ourselves. 

Even though we have students from a plethora of backgrounds, it is still important to be aware that our school is still a part of the town. St. Mark’s is not exempt from judgment. We must understand that others have the right to, and will perceive us. Every member of the student body, as well as of the faculty at our school must understand our reputation among others in the area. Our actions are not without consequences.

On Diversity Programs and Performative Action:

In an act of gaining a fuller story, I asked Tori if any of the St. Mark’s School has handled any indigenous issues well in the past. Her answer was curt but telling.

“No.”

Tori says that common courtesy should come first, and an apology should have been our school’s first move. Tori feels that a few things have gotten more inclusive in terms of education and curriculum, with more Native history being talked about in history classes, as well as the addition of a Native American Literature class. However, our work is far from perfect. Many genocides and injustices are still greatly glossed over. Additionally, she believes that the school should have left the forefront of communication with the Nipmuc Nation to the NAA instead of attempting to reach out themselves. The Native students on campus should have built a bridge, instead of the school asking their tribe for favors. 

There have been many incidents of performative action at our school. Most of us at the school for longer than a year will likely be able to name multiple. Though, I find no use in mentioning any past incidents in this article with separate nuances that distract from Indigenous issues. Our school holds DEI (diversity, equity, inclusion) event after event, workshop after workshop, talk after talk… yet, incidents of cultural insensitivity, followed by performative statements and actions still happen to this day. Why?

One answer to this multifaceted issue is that our school is attempting to address stereotypes and injustices, but our focus lies in the wrong place. We must not hold talks for the sole fear of being labeled as “racist”. Progress is messy, guilt-ridden, and uncomfortable, but we must not fear it. We must take the proper steps of achieving specific goals. 

On Attention:

Tori remarked on a need for more attention to the NAA from both the faculty and student body. The NAA has held many student-led events before, such as Orange Shirt Day (in honor of the experiences of indigenous students in residential schools) and Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women’s month (May) have had little student turnout. Open meetings that the NAA holds also get few visitors. Such events have not received much attention from the faculty either.

I remember my first open meeting attendance in freshman year. It was a packed NAA meeting of twenty-something people held in the faculty room. However, after learning about the fact that turnout in recent times has been low, I have certainly become more interested in attending an NAA meeting. The tone of this article is relatively solemn, but I hope this inspires others to join in!

In our student body, there is a lack of care for attending open meetings as an ally in all affinity groups, though the solution is simple, and right in front of us. Attend.

How To Get Involved:

I asked Tori for advice to allies on proceeding forth with Indigenous issues. Awareness is the very first step that one can take.

To learn more about the Nipmuc Nation, as well as other Native tribes, you may visit their websites. Many Indigenous nations have their own web pages, and the Nipmuc Nation website is linked here. Tribes may also have Instagram pages to post data and events that may be open to the public. The Nipmuc Nation has a profile called (@nipmuc.nation). If you want to learn more about the land that our school is built on as well as the people who have lived here first, perhaps these may be of interest to you.

Closing Statement:

There is a well-known quote that we may have heard from our parents: whatever you present, represents.

Each faculty member…each student… each apology made or waiting to be made… each one of our beliefs… each one of our discomforts… each one of our fears… each individual thing, person, and action at St. Mark’s affects our culture, reputation, relationships, and future. As much as we deny the power of an individual, it is each of us that makes up the body of students and faculty.

We must not let the privilege of duty towards the community and land that we belong to go to waste. We must take uncomfortable first steps with true intentions. We must be kind, and when Indigenous students speak, we must listen. We have a lot of work to do, and my best hope is that we can begin right away.

Meet Mr. DaSilva

by Seoyeon Kim ‘26 and Andrea Xu ‘25

Amidst the ceaseless hustle of the Burgess Lower Center, the office of Mr. DaSilva, St. Mark’s new Director of Community & Equity (C&E) Affairs, sinks into the background, hardly conspicuous in the eyes of some fifteen-year-old teenagers. The C&E office is a fishbowl-style room, sitting at the top of the stairs to the lower center at the crossroads of the school. 

I had never been to the office before this interview. It actually never caught my attention until the scarlet red envelopes hanging over the money tree recently. When I stepped into the room, the unfamiliarity I usually feel at meeting strangers dimmed. A cordial grin from Mr. DaSilva immediately welcomed me to this new place. The first thing he said was, “As the director of C&E, I’ve been working to improve the representation of the international students at the school. Especially as Ms. Zhu left, I feel fortunate to bring new experiences into the school as someone who previously worked in promoting the voices of international students in other schools.”

Mr. DaSilva traces his ancestry to Cape Verde bordering West Africa, a melting pot of Europeans, including Portuguese and Africans. The island is never found to have its indigenous people. In the 15th century, the Portuguese discovered this uncharted island, which became a hub for the Transatlantic slave trade. He believes his great grandparents at some point migrated to Massachusetts. Massachusetts is littered with ethnic diaspora, and the south coast is known for the majority of Cape Verdeans from the late 19th century. 

Mr. DaSilva has been a history teacher for over 20 years. He taught modern and ancient world history, global studies electives such as the Atlantic World, proposed East Asian electives, and Middle Eastern electives in his old school. He had also worked in the Dean's office for the international students and the Admission Office for over ten years at Tabor Academy. He is confident that his observation of teaching history and supporting international students can facilitate his work in the Community and Equity Affairs department. 

As a person of color and someone who spent over half of his life in independent schools, Mr. DaSilva has the zeal to improve equity in independent schools. He has had the experience of working at the Association of Independent Schools of New England (AISNE)and also facilitated panels and workshops on multiracial education for the National Association of Independent Schools (NAIS). Last year, he left Tabor for St. Mark’s as a chance for personal growth. Mr. DaSilva reflects, “I think it’s important to expand your vision. Staying in one place can often limit your growth.” 

Mr. DaSilva also shared that he has a keen interest in East Asian culture. “In my generation, the 70s, Japanese pop culture was a huge thing in our childhood. I had strong connections with the samurais.” Ever since his first trip to China in 2006, he felt determined to commit himself to learning more about East Asian culture and history. Since then, he frequently traveled all over East Asia, spanning from Thailand to Korea. In 2014, his reflection on his identity at the National People of Color Conference (POCC) was truly transformative for him. In fact, Mr. DaSilva joked that he had been to the Great Wall of China over 30 times in the Faculty Orientation! Mr. DaSilva prefers to spend his leisure time doing photography, traveling, especially before the pandemic, building relationships with students, and reading all sorts of books to build his knowledge as a history teacher. Mr. DaSilva’s favorite books are The American Gods and The Norse Mythology by Neil Gaiman. He also has a penchant for Miyazaki anime. 

Mr. DaSilva said that he is enjoying his transition into the St. Mark’s community. He appreciates his role as he proceeds to work with all facets of the school. He also takes delight in attentively observing the culture, students, teachers, traditions, and history of St. Mark’s. He expresses that this is even more interesting in small schools. 

Despite these positive aspects of his first year, he has also met some difficulties. He pointed out that it is always difficult to be a new person, especially when they are on their own. His daughter is in college and he is not married, which hampers the process of getting to know others within the community. He also feels challenged when it comes to getting to know 371 students. “My door is open, but that is difficult,” Mr. Dasilva repeatedly mentioned. However, it has to be taken into account that such a process of fitting in is gradual and often takes a long time. In my opinion, Mr. DaSilva is getting there. He was invited to the Lunar New Year festival and got a glimpse of another culture and its warmth. These little bits and pieces add up for one to truly become a part of a community.

Mr. DaSilva’s number one goal is defining Community and Equity at St. Mark’s. One crucial reason why he accepted the position as the Director of C&E Affairs is the title itself. He explains that most schools refer to the position with the words: Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. But he believes that the word, diversity, inevitably excludes certain groups of people. By zooming into diversifying a community, the ones who were already part of it are left out. His first substantial action in defining community and equity happened on C&E day. He intentionally invited Daryl Bellamy to discuss Fearless because that truly includes the whole community. Mr. DaSilva asserted that those who expressed their doubts about inviting Mr. Bellamy were “upset [because] they were not able to see DEI, and not C&E.” Mr. DaSilva indicates that “it is hard for people to be mindful of the future,” in a place with history. He envisions changing St. Mark’s into a forward-looking community. He understands that this will be difficult, but it is essential to St, Mark’s becoming a more inclusive community.

I asked Mr. DaSilva’s opinion on the social groups of St. Mark’s, which is another topic in the Antiracism issue. Mr. DaSilva told me that the mixing between people from different backgrounds is, in fact, better at St. Mark’s compared to other schools. Furthermore, he explained that bonding based on race is not harmful or shameful. The reality for private boarding schools with a large international student population is that people need friends like them. People are already fully occupied exploring and fitting into the school as guests. They need time to relax and loosen up. Having similar people around them, at least to start, is very valuable. When they finally become comfortable enough, they could enlarge their social circle. 

Mr. DaSilva recalls when someone pointed out the racially-segregated groups in the dining hall during lunch. Mr. DaSilva told him two things. First, lunch is an important time for connection and comfort. Second, all those students are categorized under Asian, but are of different nationalities: Taiwanese, Chinese, Korean, and Vietnamese just to name a few, and all these countries have unique cultures, traditions, and histories. Mr. DaSilva hopes that the social groups become more diverse as time passes.

As St. Mark’s runs into the end of February, Mr. DaSilva is excited about more announcements from the Pathway leaders, the upcoming cultural fair, and navigating the application for Pathway Prefects in the spring. He welcomes any voices of challenge, encourages students to share their struggles and concerns, and looks forward to learning more about everyone at St. Mark’s in the years to come.